#blacklove Is it okay to judge someone by their exes?
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Is it okay to judge someone by their exes?
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livelovelaughrandom reblogged this from naturalhairteens
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ayabadu answered:
Not unless its evident that they haven’t learned from the lessons of the previous relationship.
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theconsuelafiles answered:
no. people are ever-changing and ever-growing. the person they were with their ex isn’t necessarily the person they are now.
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nocturnalphantasmagoria reblogged this from black-culture
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eclectic-party answered:
NO!!!! thats there past shouldnt have to bring anything up about your past relationships or exs
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thesesubliminalthoughts answered:
yes
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ajalenae answered:
yes, you can tell a lot about a person’s self-esteem by how they allow themselves to be treated and the people they choose to keep around.
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lovevlife answered:
you attract what you put out…
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shaananigans answered:
No, because they’re exes for a reason.
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collegekidd answered:
You better.
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jproof answered:
Not judge them per say… but it definitely gives insight…
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buddhavavoon answered:
don’t judge, just take note of. if there’s a weird pattern in her/his exes, ask why first. we all got dirt!
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sloneczka answered:
depends, but people change and grow, especially w/ each passing relationship
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blackmaleintimacy answered:
no because ex’s teach us a lot about what we want and don’t want. a bad ex can be like an teacher showing you the way NOT to go.
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journeywecalllife answered:
nope
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expressionsofsisca answered:
i dont think so
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holyhotnessbypvi answered:
It’s never OK to ‘judge’… but an ex does offer some insight into the traits someone valued (at that point in their life).
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ratchetrow answered:
It depends because sometimes someone’s choices can provide insight into what type of man/woman they prefer. But people change, so no.
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graphitetroll reblogged this from black-culture
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omonamose answered:
Its not okay to judge anybody period. You can have your opinions, but until you start living their lives. Just enjoy walking in your shoes.
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mychocolatecity answered:
Yes
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ruthfullyurs answered:
No. That ex was of a moment in their life. People change within those moments and lovers then become exes.
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fattiesoslim answered:
No bc after a breakup they’ve learned about themselves, about their likes & dislikes, or what best suits their needs. And those ideas change.
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theforeignaffairsblog answered:
yes.
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pleasureisareligion answered:
No. We all make mistakes.
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thebeautyofblack answered:
i dont think so, certain circumstances make people act in certain ways
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norest4thaweary answered:
good question but not really. Depends on what happened, who she/he was and the intention
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myweeknd answered:
well… no not really but then it also tells you the type of people they attract and what kind of people they are attracted to
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first-of-the-only answered:
No, we as a people grow and our personalities, likes & dislikes change. An ex maybe able to tell you who I was but not who I am.
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